Why is it that concieving a child is not the same for every female? We all make them the same way, We are all biologically equiped to make them, we utilize the same tools, and use the same calender for timing, so why are the results so different? Why does it take some women a month to conceive, and others years? I have been trying for almost a year unsuccessfully. A family member got pregnant twice, both off of the first time the slept with a guy. A co-worker only took 3 months. A friend went off birth control for a week and got knocked up! I am starting to feel like I am not supposed to have children. I feel like a complete and total failure!
I was speaking to my bestie, who is also ttc, about the "advice" we recieved from our parents, and how NOT comforting it was. My mother seems to think that telling me that it took some of her friends upwards of ten years to procreate, and I have plenty of time would make me feel good. What am I supposed to say..."Yippee, I have another 9 years to go! Can't wait to start my family at 40!" Or the ever popular, "Well she lost 10 pounds and got pregnant, maybe that would help you" line was definitely the topper! I would almost rather there not be any advice if that is what I have to choose from.
Well, I am headed to the doctor on Friday to find out my other options, though I will probably get sent to a specialist. I am just praying I will be able to afford those options available, and hope that they get me nice and preggo!
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