I bought these shirts at Old Navy a few months ago that say 'Life is Wonderful' and 'Hope Is All We Need' just so I can have some positive affirmation in my life to tear down all the negativity. I think they put some serious good juju in the air because things have been going fantastic! Today I am filled with so many emotions it’s
unreal. This has been a really wonderful day. So about a month ago, D had this
idea to leave a letter at his daughters great grandmothers house in another
attempt to get back into her life. He told me about his plan and asked for my
help. Together, we sat down, wrote a letter, and he decided last Saturday he
was going to drop it off. I took him over there Saturday night, and while there
looked like a bit of confusion as to which house it was, he finally found it. He checked his phone all day Sunday and all day Monday, and nothing. He was
feeling doubtful, so he left his phone alone all day yesterday. Late last
night, we headed up to bed and he glanced at his phone and discovered a missed call.
He immediately called it back, and it was the great grandparents. They said the
mom had tried to call earlier but was gone for the night. He hung up a bit
disappointed that he missed the call. He jumped on the computer wondering if
she reached out via Facebook, and much to his surprise, she did. They both
apologized to each other, and agreed to leave the past in the past and move on.
She expressed how she was doing this for their daughter, and that she should
have who she wants in her life. Nothing major like dates or times where he gets
to see her yet, but this is a HUGE step forward in the process! I was so
unbelievably happy for both him and his daughter. He is such a wonderful man,
and that adorable little girl deserves to have him in her life! Not only that,
but this really helps solidify my feelings for this man and our future
together. I always had such a big problem with this having no contact with his
children. I am so passionate about children and hated that he just walked out
of her life, it really bothered me. The more we talked about it, the more I
understood, but still had issues with it. I really feel like we jumped over a
major hurdle and it brings us closer together and makes me feel a million times
better about us trying to start a family of our own. I just feel so hopeful and
happy about our future together! I love this man so much! I never could have
thought I would be this happy! I am so excited for us, and I thank God everyday
that by some miracle, everything worked out the way it was supposed to!
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